Ummm, so I have been watching the blog of the person who's show I am watching this weekend and who's workshop I am very excited to attend because well he puts interesting stuff up and I check it off and on, like so many blogs I monitor. Anyway, so yesterday, this (my) blog or a snippet of it appeared on that blog. I am not mentioning it by name because I do not want a web crawler to find it and put it on that blog again. It kind of freaked me out, but it mostly made me wish I hadn't dashed off what I wrote and maybe edited and reread because I don't really do that here (I know none of you would have ever guessed). But it was very odd to see my blog on his blog.
That really is the whole part there. But on a side note: I totally saw Steven from Season 4 of Project Runway (last season with Christian as the winner not this one) standing on Michigan Avenue and smoking! It was insane. Also insane, possibly my brother Tom because he is all in lurve and (well not to say he isn't but this all seems very sudden) wants to get married like tomorrow or something. I am worried. Quite worried because it just doesn't seem like he is giving much thought to the (very) long term possible consequences of his actions.
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I knew the minute I saw Dave that he was different from every other boy. I was 17. And even once we started dating--11 years later--we were only together for four or five months before we started talking seriously about getting married.
On the other hand, we'd known each other forever by that point, and we were also pretty clear on who we were ourselves. Is he pretty solid on who he is? That will make a difference in terms of success.
He has known her forever. Literally he was four or five when he met 7ish her.
However, I don't know that he is solid on who he is. I worry that he wants this to inform who he is. Since he just got out of the military Oct. 1 (and spent Sept. as his first sort of month as a civilian since he was in high school). He joined the military impulsively since he didn't have a story for his life to follow, and I don't want him to make a marriage in order for his life to have a story to follow. I, like you, think the best marriages and partnerships are between people who already have solid foundations as people to build their relationship on.
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